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If your home feels chaotic right now, I
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want you to know that you are not alone.
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Many mothers, many homemakers often feel
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this way. And very often, maybe your
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counters are full of dishes. The laundry
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is piling up. Toys are scattered. Dinner
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is still somewhere like in the middle of
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being made. Life happens fast and our
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homes can feel like they are constantly
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behind. But I'm here to remind you that
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finding that peace and calm again does
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not come from perfection. Because
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seriously, who among us is actually
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perfect?
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It comes from small, consistent choices,
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routines, and a mindset shift that just
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lets you turn your chaos into a home
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that feels peaceful and manageable
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again.
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[Music]
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Welcome to motherhood and homemaking. My
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name is Heaven and here on this channel
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I'm always sharing motherhood motivation
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and homemaking inspiration. Anything
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that I feel is relatable, realistic, and
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helpful. I'm in a current season of life
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of where I feel that slowing down and
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living a bit more minimal is beneficial
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for families, particularly those who
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feel a little bit overwhelmed or for
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those of us who have a pretty busy
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schedule. So, if that sounds like
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something that maybe you relate to as
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well, maybe that's your current season
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of life, you are looking forward to
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slowing down as well, or even just
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looking for ways to better manage your
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home, then I think that this channel is
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perfect for you. I always try to keep it
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fun and uplifting and encouraging around
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here. just a breath of fresh air on your
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timeline in a world that can often feel
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very busy and very overwhelming,
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especially in today's social media
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world. So, I would love for you to
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subscribe and join my family, but for
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today, I would really love to just
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encourage you a little bit and be a
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little bit of calm in your chaotic day
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if that is you today.
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[Music]
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The first step to finding that calm
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again is quite simple.
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Slow down and stop trying to do
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everything at once. A chaotic home
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usually doesn't happen overnight. It
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builds gradually day by day as we set
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things down instead of putting them
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away. Postpone small tasks and let
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clutter grow. I know that this is
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something that happens sometimes when we
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are exhausted. We've had a long day. And
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although I know that we do have many of
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those, the longer we prolong these
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things, the more it becomes a routine.
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So sometimes we just need to adjust our
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routine a little bit. Instead of
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focusing on everything that needs to be
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done, pick up one area to reset first.
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For me, it's usually the kitchen because
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it is just that one room in the house
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that is constantly being used, so it can
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start to feel cluttered and messy the
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fastest. A clear counter can definitely
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make the whole house feel calmer, as
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well as a clear sink that is not full of
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dishes. Even if the rest of the home is
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not perfect, when you start small, it's
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easier to build momentum without
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actually feeling overwhelmed.
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Another thing as mentioned is that
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mindset shift. Cooking does not have to
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be stressful. It's one of the ways that
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we can care for our families. And it can
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actually be calming if we approach it
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intentionally. Instead of rushing, try
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slowing down. I always encourage mothers
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and homemakers, especially if they're
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feeling overwhelmed, to slow down. Wash
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as you go. Put things away while waiting
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for the water to boil or even the oven
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to preheat. These small actions will
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prevent cast from building further and
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make the space feel a lot more
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manageable. Even the smallest acts like
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chopping vegetables, stirring a pot, or
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wiping the counters can become a mini
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reset for your home and your mind.
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When it comes to like cleaning videos
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and cleaning motivation,
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one of the myths and something that we
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can sometimes take away from that is
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that it needs to be done perfectly or in
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one long session. I rarely these days do
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a full whole house clean. I just rarely
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can get that done. It's just not
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realistic for me now that I have a
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one-year-old. And if I do, it's honestly
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usually exhausting and it's just not
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sustainable. So instead, think of
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cleaning as a reset rather than
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punishment.
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So instead of trying to do it all at
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once, try to split it up a bit and maybe
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even focus on small parts or small
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areas, certain rooms each day.
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Think of cleaning as a reset rather than
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punishment. Every dish washed, every
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counter wipe, every load of laundry
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folded helps your home reset a little
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bit at a time. You don't have to finish
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everything today. You just need to take
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the next step. Small, consistent habits.
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That is what keeps a home calm.
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[Music]
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When you break tasks into manageable
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pieces, the process just becomes less
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stressful, more sustainable, and also
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much more approachable.
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[Music]
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Calm homes are built on rhythm, not
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perfection. You don't need a strict
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schedule or a deep cleaning routine. You
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need small repeatable habits like a
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quick kitchen reset in the morning or at
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night. Making the beds as soon as you
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get out of them, a 5minut tidy before
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you go to sleep. Folding laundry right
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after it comes out of the dryer. Doing
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one small load a day so that once you do
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fold it, it doesn't take you a whole
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hour. These small actions done
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consistently prevent chaos from taking
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over and make the house feel manageable
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without burning you out.
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Clutter isn't just physical, it's
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mental. So when your home is full of
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things that you don't use, it adds
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stress and noise to your day. It also
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makes it harder for you to get to the
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things that you actually do use. So
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start with the items that cause the most
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friction in your home and ask yourself,
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do we use this? Does this make life
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easier or harder? Letting go of the
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things that don't serve you creates
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space for calm to settle in. You don't
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have to declutter everything at once.
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Even small steps make a difference.
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[Music]
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[Music]
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One thing to remember is that calm homes
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start with you. As you can see, I have
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quite a bit of a mess here in my
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kitchen. I started this video with a
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sink full of dishes. I have little ones
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running around behind me in the
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background. I'm trying to cook while
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also preparing meals, this is just what
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homemaking looks like for me. And while
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it could look like or feel like a lot,
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as long as we just slow it down a little
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bit and look at it from a different
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mindset, it's really not not so bad. And
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at the end of this, I still have a full
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day to be able to just rest knowing that
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I was able to make a difference in my
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home and for my family today.
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At the end of the day, a calm home
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doesn't start with a perfectly organized
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space. It instead starts with a calm
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mindset. So, what started off in this
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video as a sink full of dishes, hungry
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children that need to be fed, a meal
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that has not yet been prepared,
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because I had a calm mindset, I was able
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to get through it and get the things
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done that needed to get done. And even
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when the house is still a little bit
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messy, you can still choose to slow
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down, reset, and just create little
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moments of peace. For me, that little
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moment of peace was created inside of my
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kitchen.
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[Music]
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[Music]
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Think of things like folding a blanket
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while the kids play, wiping down a
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counter while the pasta cooks, or light
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a candle during cleanup. That that
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definitely sets the mood and makes a big
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difference. But these small choices kind
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of just creates a ripple throughout your
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home. it starts to become more normal
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where whenever you just have little
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pockets of time, you find little ways to
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make your home a little bit more calm, a
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little bit more peaceful. And that
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rhythm will also create a sense of order
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and a feeling of peace that everyone in
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the home will be able to feel.
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[Music]
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Com homes are built little by little.
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You don't have to do everything today.
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You just need to take the next small
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step and start with one surface, one
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routine, and one habit.
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[Music]
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Celebrate the little wins and let them
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remind you that you're doing important
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work. Every little thing that you're
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doing, it's important. And you're not
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just keeping a house. You're creating a
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home where your family can feel safe and
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loved and calm. And that is worth more
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than any perfectly clean home.
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[Music]
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So, I hope that you guys found this
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video to be helpful, motivational,
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inspirational. Maybe it brought a little
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bit of calm and peace back into your
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home today or inspired you to get a
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little bit done here and there, or maybe
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even inspired you to see things from a
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different lens or point of view and a
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little bit of a mindset shift. If you
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enjoyed this video, I hope that you will
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give it a thumbs up and consider
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watching more of my videos. If you're
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new here, I would love for you to
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subscribe and join our family. I'm
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always sharing motherhood motivation and
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homemaking inspiration. But that's going
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to be all for today's video, and I'm
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going to see you guys in the next one.
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Happy homemaking.
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