Struggle Day In The Life of a Pregnant SAHM & Homemaker: Cooking, Cleaning, Laundry, Unpacking
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Feb 28, 2025
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hello and welcome back to my channel my
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name is heaven and here on this channel
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I create motherhood motivation and homem
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making inspiration for you guys so a
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little bit of cleaning a little bit of
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home organization days in the Life
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haul grocery hauls all of the things so
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that's something that you're into I
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invite you to subscribe to my channel
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and join the family I would love to have
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you here I post once or twice per week
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but for today we are going to be
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spending a little bit of time together
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we just got back home yesterday um so I
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decided to film a day after vacation
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Vlog for you guys showing you guys what
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it looks like settling back into the
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home and just getting back to some
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normaly as you can see I have like some
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severe allergy issues going on I am like
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severely severely allergic two cats and
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dogs especially a dog and on our flight
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home yesterday the row across from us
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they had like a dog on the plane and we
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had like a delay on that plane it took
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us like an extra hour and a half before
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we could even like take off I was
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wishing so bad that they wouldn't have
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bored at us you know like if we were
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going to be delayed 2 hours because that
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was 2 hours that I was like sitting
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across from a dog and then there were
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like people like sneezing and coughing
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um we were not moving and then of course
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there was the actual flight which was
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like an hour and a half so my nose is
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red my allergies are absolutely insane
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I've taken some allergy medicine um
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there's not a whole lot that I can do
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also because I have also six almost
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seven months pregnant so it's definitely
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been struggle town for me um but
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nevertheless there are things that need
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to be done another thing I feel like I'm
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starting this Vlog off all
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bad but this is reality this is just
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like real life it's a little bit more
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diff for me to adjust to being back home
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just because when we got back our
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furnace was not working right now it's
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57° so it's pretty cold outside and so
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it's kind of cold in our house too we
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have about 69° inside I believe but it's
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just still so cold so that mix with the
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allergies it's hard for me to adjust
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coming back from like beautiful warm
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weather and that's just me being honest
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that's okay I'm working on it here um I
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have my coffee and I am doing some
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cleaning today I have to cook dinner I
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have to do some laundry some unpacking
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and I'm also going to make a little bit
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of brunch as well I did not buy
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groceries before we left because I
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didn't want anything to go bad in the
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fridge so I'll show you guys what I have
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here um I just ordered like a few things
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just to be able to make some lunch for
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today and some dinner for tonight so
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I'll show you guys just what I ordered
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just now from WalMart delivery some
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jasmine rice I'm going to make some
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steak rice and vegetables today with
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some gravy kind of like a beef stir fry
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sort of I'm going to like cut the steak
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up into slices and add peppers and
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vegetables to it the gravy maybe a
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little bit of soy sauce maybe not
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because of the sodium um and then just
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make some rice on the side and some
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biscuits more eggs a little more fruits
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so I got bananas some strawberries too
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beef gravy I got two of the um Market
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side grass bit beef um riye steak so
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just two of these and this is what I'm
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going to chop up for dinner tonight some
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biscuits vegetable oil spread sticks and
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I also got a Caesar salad to have on the
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side so that's it that's all I have um
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that's all the groceries that I ordered
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today and that again is just like to get
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us through today until I sit down and do
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like an actual meal plan and figure out
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what meals we're going to be having for
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the next 4 weeks and then that is when
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I'll be able to go ahead and like place
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a big grocery order I'm going to get
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this stuff put away and then show you
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where I am with the unpacking take me
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long and enough to put that away it was
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literally just a few things and most of
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it I left out like the bananas left out
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the eggs and about to cook some of the
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eggs gravy I left out cuz I'm cooking
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with that but I'm going to um refill the
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rice
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canister I'm going to also have to go
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get get the dog today I completely
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forgot until my alarm just went off like
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I didn't forget I remembered but then I
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forgot again so I'm going to get the dog
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today too from his um sitter we always
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drop him off a day before vacation and
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pick him up a day after vacation so I
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have to pick him up today tomorrow I
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have a prenatal Doctor's appointment as
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well so basically I'm just laying
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everything out here so like these are
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things that I need to put on hangers I
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did laundry before we left the room so
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that I wouldn't have to anything that
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needs to be steel washed I just sitting
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back there on the sofa but it's not much
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these are all nose clothes I have to go
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put away I have to put my dresses and
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jackets all hangers I have some pants
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here that I need to put in the drawer
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these are shirts
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um here these are like rompers and
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things I have some PJs so just laying
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everything out so that I can then carry
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them upstairs this suitcase is just
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about empty with just my toiletry bag
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here
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um hair products and like accessories
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that I still need to go through and then
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my husband's is still completely full so
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once I get me and Noah's stuff done then
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I'll work on getting his done add this
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to the laundry and then do the laundry
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what
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all right so taking a little breakfast
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break Noah just has eggs with strawberry
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watermelon and banana I have eggs with
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strawberry watermelon and banana and
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then my husband has some eggs too and
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I'll make him a slice of toast to go P
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we're going to work on that and then I
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am going to come back finish up the
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packing throw a load of laundry in the
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wash and then go get the dog
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I
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I have for the most part gotten all be
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unpacking done both of the suitcases are
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empty except for like packing cubes and
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anything that we only take to Disney
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these are like toys that no one got from
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Disney World so he has a large bag there
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and like basically these are just some
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of the toys that he got from Disney
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World as well as that little packing
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Cube there and this stuff needs to be
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sanitized while washed and cleaned so
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they're going to stay there until I
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clean them um and then these are some
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leftover laundry sheets that we didn't
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use I'm going to leave the suitcases
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here so that I can actually clean the
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outside of the suitcases I disinfected
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the chairs that I have the suitcases on
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cuz those wheels are disgusting and then
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I had like a bag of laundry upstairs
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that I still needed to do so I added any
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laundry from the trip we had a little
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bit of clothes left over from before the
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trip just like the clothes that we wore
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the day before travel day and then we
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had some travel day clothes that we came
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home in yesterday so I added that to the
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laundry as well as like the pajamas from
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the day before we left Florida so I have
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like a little bit of laundry to do so I
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am doing that laundry now before that
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this morning I also threw all of our
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shoes in the wash all of our sneakers or
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sandals the shoes that we wore during
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the trip all of those I washed them too
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they were like walking through the
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airport on the airplanes through the
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parks um on like the shuttles and things
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like that and those are clean they're
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air drying now and I just put the load
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of laundry in so now it's 2:00 and I
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need to go get the dog so I'm going to
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go pick him up he's about 20 to 25
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minutes away from me um and you guys I
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look and feel so bad my allergies will
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not let up I know you can see like how
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tired my eyes are because my whole head
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is stuffy like I can't stop sneezing
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causing like a headache up here so I'm
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thinking that I am gonna go pick up the
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dog and then pick up some allergy
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medicine I like to take it before I go
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to sleep at night as opposed to in the
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morning because I know that it makes me
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drowsy but the one that I took last
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night is not working so I'm going to get
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another one and hopefully I can be back
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home by 3:00 in which I am just going to
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spend between 3 and 5:00 napping because
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I know that the allergy meds are going
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to make me drowzy I know you guys are
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thinking like why on Earth does she have
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a dog if she's allergic so like there
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are things that I do to be able to to
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have our dog so before I was pregnant I
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got allergy shots which is immunotherapy
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but I had to stop them while being
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pregnant we still bathe our dog every
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single week we have air filters and
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purifiers all through the home
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humidifiers um we also have like a d
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shedding things unless I'm bathing him
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we can kind of keep them at Bay and then
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after I have the baby summer I'll get
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back on my immunotherapy but when I'm
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around like a new animal and if the anim
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isn't like as properly maintained as we
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maintain ours my allergies go Haywire
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cuz it's a brand new animal that I have
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not gotten used to and it's just a lot
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of little things that goes into it like
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if the dog hasn't been bathed recently
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we sheded and there's no type of
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filtration which on an airplane 4 hours
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there is nothing to filter out you know
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all the allergens within that tight
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aircraft then there's like the air vent
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and everything blowing around so I think
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it just really um it made it difficult
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for me to be able to like overcome it
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and so I'm trying you guys I really am I
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wanted to you know do a lot more
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vlogging but you guys I'm just going to
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take a little nap just going to be like
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a 2our nap once I get up I'm going to
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prepare dinner so I'll take you guys
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along and show you how I am going to be
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doing that this is a very realistic
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after travel day Vlog all of the Vlogs
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are not going to be super go go go go go
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super super productive and you know some
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of them are just going to be like this
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like struggle town so yes this is their
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struggle day in the life but we are
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going to get through it so I'm going to
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get the dog and we'll go from there this
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is Noah's room he's been watching number
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blocks and just playing with his number
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blocks toys for like 3 hours he loves
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number blocks and as you can see they're
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everywhere but at least he kept busy
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while I was napping after picking up
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Bailey and taking a well- needed 2hour
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nap I also took some allergy medicine I
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feel a lot better not completely better
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but I do feel better enough to be able
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to like function now before I felt like
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I was barely functioning so I'm going to
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get ready and to cook some dinner um my
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husband he actually is under the weather
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like he hasn't been feeling good since a
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day or two before we left um Florida so
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he like um been laying in the family
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room resting like the kitchen is off of
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the family room and I wanted to let him
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get that rest because it's always hard
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for me to get him to rest he's always
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like trying to work or do things around
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the house and it's like he never rests
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so I really wanted him to get that rest
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I didn't want disturb him so now I'm
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going to still try and cook dinner he is
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still resting um I'm just not going to
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talk much and I'm going to try to be
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quiet it might not work but I'll try
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though so let's go get some dinner going
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a little Disney update while I fold some
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towels we did look got a few different
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apartments in the Davenport area that
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was still pretty close to Orlando and we
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did I think decide on an apartment but
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we did not apply yet because baby is due
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in July this summer so trying to go back
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and forth to get settled in this summer
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with baby on the way would be way too
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much we wouldn't want to actually sign
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our Le and get the keys until October so
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we didn't apply but we pretty sure that
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that is the one that we're going to go
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with um it's only like 15 minutes from
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the parks but it's far enough that
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you're not dealing with that traffic if
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you just want to go out to the store or
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to go get groceries or something my
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husband had a budget it was under his
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budget but still a very beautiful place
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so U if we decide to go with that we'll
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probably fill out an application for
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that sometime in August so that's just
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something I will keep you guys updated
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on whether or not we will be making that
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move to a Florida second home of course
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everything is God's timing not my timing
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cuz if it was my timing it would have
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happened too um years ago but one thing
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that I felt like I needed to really
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learn is how to be like fully content
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and grateful right where I am I always
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get like bouts of seasonal depression
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and sometimes is so extreme that I'm
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like on my own like trying to figure out
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what I can do to fix it and for me it
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was like to relocate in the winter which
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isn't the easiest thing to be able to do
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you know and we have a beautiful home
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that we just purchased 2 years ago and
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like we had just moved in and already I
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was like looking for the next thing and
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I really needed to sit back and become
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much more grateful and content here in
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this home that God has given us that my
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husband is providing for us so that is
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what I have you know been doing we are
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also blessed to have family here to help
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us like once the baby comes to be able
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to keep new when we go into labor
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because I was ready to hop up and like
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sell our home last October and move to
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Florida completely um even though the
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goal that we really wanted was to have
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two places one here and one in Florida I
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was like I don't care sell the home take
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me to Florida I really don't care care
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but in being patient um letting God lead
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the way with his timing we might be in a
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better place now but we will be able to
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not have to sell our Michigan home but
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get that second place in Florida and
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Orlando again I am not sure completely
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of the timeline that is currently where
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we are anything can happen between now
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and then where my husband might decide
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otherwise and his decision is the
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decision um we are very traditional
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household so he is the decision maker
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but the ultimate decision maker of
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course is God so I trust God to lead my
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husband to lead our family and I know
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that my husband he is a Praying husband
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and he is a very faithful hasb been like
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faithful to God so that helps me to
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trust his decision making a whole lot
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more than me trying to do things on my
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own because that I personally feel like
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that's not the way God designed for our
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marriage to be kind I think that I'm
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better off by going that route than me
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trying to make the decisions and figure
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it all out on my own even if my
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husband's not really there with it I
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will continue to update you guys with
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that but I'm going to go put these bath
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towels away and then yeah we're going to
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go ahead and get started with dinner
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have some broccoli stir FR Frozen that I
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am going to sauté and some olive oil and
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then I also got some chopped green
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peppers out of the freezer just in case
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I don't have any fresh ones in the
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fridge really quick I got some more
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groceries that I ordered I thought that
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these are the coffee cups that come with
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the lid but it's not my mistake the
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silap Almond Berry
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free caramel creamer sweet creamy
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one cinnamon and vanilla Great Value
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coffee the caramel pean and coffee
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cookies so my
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husband is allergic to
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peas so I'm like going through and
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picking out those like sugar snap peas I
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wish there was more color in here like
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they only have like a few red peers and
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carrots in here but then they just have
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like
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cauliflower and broccoli white corn
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mushrooms water chestnuts and red
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peppers is what's supposed to be in here
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now that they're all coated it in the
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olive oil I'm going just let it simmer
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while I chop up the meat the water's
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boiling for the
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rice I am no butcher I have no idea any
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proper way to chop meat so you know I am
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just doing it as I like chop that the
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same way I chop a vegetable or piece of
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fruit is like how I am chopping this
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steak
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I didn't just tap the tumeric into the
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rice not a lot only a little bit only
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because
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um my husband not fing
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last for the biscuits I had a taste for
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like some southern biscuits and gravy so
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just can biscuits but still be good so
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it comes to like8 and even if I don't
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cook or at of these biscuits the last
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two will go to waste they either go to
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waste because I won't cook them or
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they'll go to waste because I'll cook
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them and the one's going to eat them cuz
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we're not going to eat eight biscuits
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it's just three of us so I just cook the
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six I'm going to go ahead and get
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started on cleaning up the dishes from
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today so that um you know after we eat
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dinner we just have to add our dinner
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plates to the dishwasher and I don't
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have to worry about all of you know that
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stuff I don't know if loading the
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dishwasher counts as doing the dishes
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but that's what I'm gonna do so I'm not
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hand washing them they're going into the
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dishwasher
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that took like 2 minutes I just had to
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hand wash The Cutting Board and then put
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everything else in the dishwasher and we
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didn't have much because we have been
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using paper products lately which
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normally we don't but lately that's been
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our thing paper plates and paper cups
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and um plastic wear it's been super
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super helpful last time having to like
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stand on my feet in the kitchen for when
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it gets really really hard when I was
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pregnant with an Noah I remember
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knocking like a whole counter of dishes
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onto the floor because I don't know it's
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like the belly is there but you forget
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that it's there me personally maybe I'm
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just super clumsy or dinky or something
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that I'm just going to PO my day and
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knock something over with my stomach so
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when I was pregnant with Noah like I was
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trying to do the dishes and I had them
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like all on the countertop um loading
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them into the water and knocked all of
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the glasses on the floor glass was
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everywhere I was like cyan cuz I felt so
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bad and my husband like cleaned up all
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of the glass and any who we had to buy
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new dishes um and then it was also just
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exhausting I don't know it was tiring so
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yeah I might do 14 hours of walking
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inside of Disney World but washing the
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dishes that's not something that I
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actually enjoyed doing I didn't put a
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whole lot of tumeric because um it
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wasn't like for the taste it was like
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just to help my husband's immune system
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out I made him like a ginger peach and
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tumeric tea with some peppermint instead
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of putting it back into the pot nine
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times out of 10 after it's done cooking
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it's going directly into a storage
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container that it's going to go into the
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fridge in so that I don't have to worry
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about putting it into like the storage
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container after we've done eating dinner
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mortish is to wash so I just do it right
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away I serve it out of the storage
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container close it up and then once it
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cools I put it in the fridge I try to
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minimize the amount of things that I
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actually have to do after dinner because
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I'm the type of person who probably
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wouldn't do it I get fooled and then I
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don't move again like I don't like going
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to sleep with dishes in the sink or you
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know a messy kitchen or home but
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um I know me and I very much will do it
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if I don't get it clean before we sit
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down to eat so
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so that is what I'm trying to do
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here here's how that is looking the
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gravy has gotten a little bit darker and
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a little bit thicker cuz I let it simmer
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there is what we're going to have over
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top of the rice I can get the table set
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so that once that 3 minutes is up we can
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sit down and say our Grace and thank God
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for putting food on our table and be
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able to enjoy this meal together that is
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one thing that we always do together
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like no matter what and I hope that that
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never changes like once you know my kids
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get older and stuff I hope that we can
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always come together around the table as
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a family and enjoy dinner together just
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having that time together every single
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day allows us to still spend time in a
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very busy day I know um you'll be
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surprised how many families don't get to
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do that because of the different
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conflicting work hours and then the kids
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having to get to bed at a certain time
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before school so sometimes the kids
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would eat earlier or maybe even
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teenagers eat inside of their bedrooms
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and things like that and obviously if
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that is the reality you know that's just
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how it has to be everything is not
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forever um we go through seasons in life
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but I am very grateful and I always
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thank the Lord for that that we do get
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to come together we don't always eat
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breakfast together that is something
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that we normally do in our own quarters
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of the house
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but the days that we eat breakfast
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together I'm also super super grateful
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because that's two times that we get to
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fellowship and gather around the table
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together so that's really important for
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me so I'm going to cut the Vlog here I
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hope that today wasn't too too boring it
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was very very real realistic kind of
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like a struggle day in the life but we
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did get some groceries or a little bit
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of groceries grocery haul we did some
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unpacking some laundry cooked some
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dinner together um and and I caught you
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guys up so this is what the day after
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vacation looks like for me and there is
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the biscuits so it's still not done so
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like two more minutes
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still um which is good give me two more
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minutes to close up the Vlog I hope that
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you guys enjoyed it um and if you are
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new here again my name is heaven I'm a
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motherhood and homemaking vlogger with a
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little bit of homeschool and Disney
26:21
sprinkled in so if that's something that
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you're into go ahead and join the family
26:25
I would love to have you here but that
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is going to be all for today's Vlog
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thank you guys so much for watching and
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spending the day with me and I hope to
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see you in the next one even though I
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post out the Vlog already I don't want
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you guys to think that we are still
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freezing over here we got the Heat going
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or my husband did he got the Heat Going
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while I went to pick up the dock the
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furnace company came over I don't
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exactly know what was going on with the
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furnace I was not here but when I came
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back the house was a lot more comfy and
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warm so we have heat now um hopefully we
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won't have to run it for too much longer
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and then we will get some sunshine and
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hot weather very soon I just wanted to
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add in that little update um there but
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now I will officially officially close
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out the Vlog so thanks again for
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watching bye
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